Your Choice: Ignore or Admire.

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So today’s blog is on ‘we admire the ones who ignore us and ignore the ones who admire us’. Firstly I was not even sure about what I was going to blog about, so I thought I’d share my thoughts. Experiment a little. So here goes blog number four.

I’m certain all of us have come across the phrase mentioned above; some of us have even experienced the following. Let’s talk about the consequences first, from my point of view this obviously leads to, rising of distances between the two, and when distances rise the talking is less, and talking less leads to fading of the person’s importance from your life and finally the moving on, where its completely gone. And it is an end to the friendship or relationship.

Let’s start from the beginning, what got you so close? Maybe he/she sounded much more interesting than the usual people you talk to or whatsoever. But the point is, never make someone so close that you forget your friends. He/she might sound really important to you but then what about your friend from childhood? Isn’t he the most important when compared? According to the teenage phase, this is often seen. We start admiring someone and ignoring the world for them and on the other hand they’re not doing the same maybe because they have someone better to look forward to. You know what you’re doing here? THE BIGGEST MISTAKE OF YOUR LIFE. Never ever think of leaving your friends for someone who does not admire you the same way or in other words does not keep you first on her/his list.

Your friends will tell you what your doing is a mistake, you would not listen. They’d be the most important, “TOP PRIORITIES”. You might gain them but you’re loosing on the best you’d have. And this where the phrase applies, you admire the one who ignores you and ignore the one who admires you the most. You lost the best. What more would anyone have to say to you? Always think of what the other person feels, how the other person feels, they’re important people too. Much often people scream on their family members just because they wanted you to spend some time with them, is that how we were raised? 

Never ignore a person who loves you, cares for you, and misses you. Because one day, you might wake up from your sleep and realize that you lost the moon while counting the stars. Appreciate your friends.

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Keep Believing.

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Well, this is blog number three. Something you all should know about me to start off is that I am a dancer, I love dancing a lot. No, today’s blog is not about me and my dancing skills. It’s something else.

When I first started dancing I swear, I did not think I had it in me. I used to take part in a lot of competitions and for competitions everyone has to go through the audition process. Likewise, even I had to go through the same process. But my thing was different. I always gave my name for auditions with a positive attitude, but at the end I backed out. It was always in the end that I thought I would not get through and used to give up.

At that time, every audition I registered for turned out to be useless at the end. I started thinking to myself what was the reason behind this, why was the conclusion always failure. The reason was I lacked self confidence. I thought I was not capable of showcasing my talent. I started practising more often, started building my self confidence. I had a determination boost in myself; things I thought I was not capable of became priorities. I started viewing these auditions from a different prospective, I knew even if I did not get through it still would mean, I participated and did my best. And then, THERE WAS NO CHANCE, I WAS BACKING OUT FROM ANYTHING.

Giving up might be a really good option to you right now but later on your going to be left with questions like, “WHY DID I LEAVE SUCH A GOOD OPPORTUNITY?” or “WHAT WAS I THINKING?”. All I want to say is, DONT GIVE UP, you may look like a fool to people for what talent you possess, but by giving up your just stating that you’re not worth it, you don’t have the courage in you. Lots of people limit their possibilities by giving up easily. Never tell yourself this is too much for me. It's no use. I can't go on. Keep believing. When you feel like giving up, hold on tighter and push through it. It will always get you better. I promise. So to all of you out there who think the easiest thing to do is giving up on yourself, just stop and think if you’d do that, would the world ever know what you really are?. If Mark Zuckerberg gave up, do you think we’d be having facebook? Or if Mr. Jason Russell and his companions gave up on the KONY 2012 project, would it be where it is today? Think about it.

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Tenth Grade: The Rollercoaster.

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You know that amazing feeling when you publish your blog and you keep refreshing it to see how many page views you get, that’s the exact same feeling I had when I published the first one and yes, I’m writing blog number two.

This time I’m going to pin point some of the things 10^th grade did to me or might as well say to many of the 10^th graders. Honestly, passing out of tenth leaves you with mixed emotions. You do not know whether you should be excited about it or be depressed about the fact that the fun years are gone.

When the word 10^th grade comes to anyone’s mind, the first things that flash would probably be BOARDS, PRESSURE, STREAMS, CGPA. So to all the 9^th graders going to 10^th, welcome yourself for a rollercoaster ride.

The thing about 10^th was, when I entered 10^th I wasn’t really thrilled or pressurized. We had only two terms, the first term went by just like that. This does not mean I did not take it seriously; it was just that the first term did not really look that serious at first. The terror came in with the starting of the second term and when I say that I mean it. Those months were the months we were being pressurized; we were tested to the best of our abilities. Those were the months when our parents started putting us under house arrest, taking every form of technology we own ALL BECAUSE WE HAD TO STUDY. We had our mocks and ongoing boards, the pressure kept building, and we kept inviting a lot of taunts, good lucks to actually. Frankly the amount of best of lucks I’ve got this year is nothing compared to what I’ve ever got for doing well on an exam. So you see? They all want us to excel. But our side of the story was different, at least mine. The thing was I wasn’t really ever pressurised in life, so this was my first. And it kept building on me, I had a really bad emotional breakdown, there were a few moments when I did not know what was I actually doing. But when I look back at whatever happened in those few months, it was definitely worth it.

The one question I always faced was, WHATS AM I GOING TO BECOME? Here’s my view on that, the thing is when we were kids, all of us wanted to become a doctor or an engineer and those were the same exact things I wanted to become to, but honestly when you come to an higher level like 10^th and you actually have to decide what stream you have to take to pursue your career, trust me,  that’s when you hit your head with a gun, I guess. BECAUSE YOUR NOT SURE ABOUT WHAT YOUR REALLY GOING TO TAKE (at least at one point of time for the ones who are certain.)

So anyways though we all took a lot of taunts from our parents, we’ve had our bad times and the good ones how could anyone forget those? We are officially done with 10^th grade in a few days and when I look back, I’m surely going to miss it all.

The only reason why I actually wrote this was because I really wanted to express my point of view. Best of luck to the future 10^th graders from my behalf.

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The Smoking Obsession.

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So, this turns out to be the first blog I’ve ever written and hopefully not the last one. To start off, I never really thought I’d be writing a blog, but after reading through a few blogs I decided I’d start one too...

What I’m going to talk about today is something that has been stuck in my head ever since I actually entered the teenager phase and was exposed to this world- “The life of the teenager”. Have you ever wondered why kids who are not even sixteen smoke? Why do they take drugs? And most importantly ignore the consequences after having the knowledge about it too.

We have seen a lot of advertisements and even more of documentaries, heard so much of advice and learnt so much about the ill effects of smoking. If not, here are a few. In Brief it causes diseases affecting the heart and lungs i.e. lung cancer, heart strokes etc. 

The problem of the present generation is that they think smoking is really ‘cool’. Hiding your habits from your parents, lying to get money so that you could buy yourself a pack of cigarettes and then hiding it, eating mints and washing your hands a million times to avoid the awful smell before you go home has increasingly become a trend. Some of the few reasons why teenagers smoke is to remove their frustration which might have been caused by their recent breakup they had with a person who obviously was not going to stay forever, I mean come on, how sure are you that you’re actually in love at this age? It’s just puppy love, nothing more than that, please! One of the other reasons why they smoke is because their forced by the people in their surroundings who might have either been forced by their friends or because they think it’s fun. This age is all about showing off so they think- "By smoking, she/he might think I’m cooler and I might have a chance with her/him". Please if you have a brain and the girl has one too she wouldn’t really care about your smoking habits to actually date you. 

When I asked a few people what would be the reason behind them smoking, all they had to tell me was that it gave them the peace of mind they had been looking for. Honestly, it might give you the ‘peace’ you’re looking for but for a short period of time, do you have any idea about how is it affecting your body in the long run? And these are those people, when they fall sick due to viral fever or any other problem, their afraid to go to the doctors why? Because their scared their parents would find out and it would lead to things they dreaded. My question is, WHY DO YOU DO IT THEN? When you know what’s going to happen later on, when you know the ill effects, WHY ARE YOU RISKING YOUR LIFE?

Please, you should know you don’t really need to smoke to look cool. Have a good personality, learn how to face the world and look how many people look up to you.

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