Your Choice: Ignore or Admire.

Hello,

So today’s blog is on ‘we admire the ones who ignore us and ignore the ones who admire us’. Firstly I was not even sure about what I was going to blog about, so I thought I’d share my thoughts. Experiment a little. So here goes blog number four.

I’m certain all of us have come across the phrase mentioned above; some of us have even experienced the following. Let’s talk about the consequences first, from my point of view this obviously leads to, rising of distances between the two, and when distances rise the talking is less, and talking less leads to fading of the person’s importance from your life and finally the moving on, where its completely gone. And it is an end to the friendship or relationship.

Let’s start from the beginning, what got you so close? Maybe he/she sounded much more interesting than the usual people you talk to or whatsoever. But the point is, never make someone so close that you forget your friends. He/she might sound really important to you but then what about your friend from childhood? Isn’t he the most important when compared? According to the teenage phase, this is often seen. We start admiring someone and ignoring the world for them and on the other hand they’re not doing the same maybe because they have someone better to look forward to. You know what you’re doing here? THE BIGGEST MISTAKE OF YOUR LIFE. Never ever think of leaving your friends for someone who does not admire you the same way or in other words does not keep you first on her/his list.

Your friends will tell you what your doing is a mistake, you would not listen. They’d be the most important, “TOP PRIORITIES”. You might gain them but you’re loosing on the best you’d have. And this where the phrase applies, you admire the one who ignores you and ignore the one who admires you the most. You lost the best. What more would anyone have to say to you? Always think of what the other person feels, how the other person feels, they’re important people too. Much often people scream on their family members just because they wanted you to spend some time with them, is that how we were raised? 

Never ignore a person who loves you, cares for you, and misses you. Because one day, you might wake up from your sleep and realize that you lost the moon while counting the stars. Appreciate your friends.

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