Hey everyone,
So basically all this time, I’ve always been
blogging about some or the other particular topic, but this time it’s
everything together. Like when I say everything together I basically mean that
there were so many things I wanted to vent my emotions on and I did not really
want to create different blogs on each topic, so yeah this. And this blog would
be the most informal piece of work you must have ever read because basically
when you got things already irritating you and on top of that there is
everything else piling up and you have no one to talk to about them; you just
end up being really disorganized.
WARNING: THIS BLOG IS GOING TO BE HUGE, UNLESS YOU
REALLY WANT TO READ. I SINCERELY APPRECIATE YOU READING A 700+ WORDS BLOG.
THANKS :D
PART 1: There’s this thing that gets on my nerves
when it comes to people, I’ve commonly noticed it in the people around my
surroundings but whatever. So here’s the situation: She/he is your best friend
and vice versa. Now let me get this straight, if you have to think thrice before
confiding to this best friend of yours, do you really think she/he is your best
friend? (Again, I am just stating my opinion on the above, other people might
have different opinions on the same.) A best friend according to me would
basically be your other half. Someone you can be yourself with (Though I feel
you should really be yourself with everyone, because eventually you’re going to
get tired of being this other person and get back to your normal self.) So as I
was saying, a best friend is one who you can share anything with, I do not mean
EVERYTHING, I mean ANYTHING. But, if you have to re-think about telling this
best friend of yours that particular thing that you cannot possibly tell other
people, I do not really think she’s your best friend. Just because she hangs
out with you all the time, you sleepover at each other’s places all the time or
your parents are close, doesn’t mean you guys are best friend seriously.
PART 2: You know what really pisses me off? People
running behind being the “POPULAR” one in the surroundings and everyone is so
caught up with their own drama and about who looks prettier than who. It’s like
war. I mean, I know of people who go like, “Omg she’s wearing such a short
dress, more people are going to fall for her.” Like seriously? THAT is your
mentality? And there is a place and time to wear these revealing clothes by the
way. NOT EVERYWHERE AND ANYWHERE, I mean come on I’m not going against you, you
can wear whatever you want whenever you want but have the right sense of mind
to know the appropriate time and place. And ‘the more people are going to fall
for her’ part, I’m going to lay it down straight, to the girls, HE IS NOT IN
LOVE WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL HUMAN BEING, HE IS WITH YOU, TO USE
YOU. (If you still don’t understand that, I’m sorry, I can’t make it any more
obvious than this and to be honest everyone, be it a boy or a girl is beautiful
within them, in their own way, it’s only time and your environment that has changed you to what you were
to what you are now.) I know, I have mentioned this in some of blogs, it’s
just annoying. (I do not know when I jumped to some other topic. Back to what I
was saying.) The most important thing, IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET POPULAR: Get
popular for good reasons, the right ones. Not the Bad ones, why spoil your
image in every third person’s eye?
PART 3: You
know how it feels to be surrounded in an environment with arrogant, mean people?
(I should really stop with the “you knows”.) Truth: It is so suffocating to
stand in a place filled with back biters. Every second step, someone is back
biting about the other. Can you not gain the courage to stay it on the face?
And I can bet on it, you wouldn’t even care about how she/he feels after you
say all the mean things which you were saying behind her back anyway. Next,
Judging, We always end up judging people knowingly or unknowingly with or
without the intention of hurting them but sometimes it’s so extreme that it
really tends to hurt people’s sentiments. This is what happens: You are good at
something, you show your talent to the world. Now people who don’t have the
guts to do the same thing this other person is doing sit and judge (When I refer
to ‘guts to do the same thing’ I mean something like public speaking or face
the audience with something you’re really good at etc.) At least have the humanity
in you to not judge the person?
I think I’ve spoken way to much today, thanks for
reading (that is if you reached here.) Do leave in your comments.
