To be or not to be...

I have no idea as to why that is the title to this but I hope you guys can relate. Do comment on how you like it, share it for me too!

So there’s this girl, she has family problems, she has limited amount of friends who think she’s happy and content with her life and that there is nothing wrong with her life at all but what they don’t know is that there is practically nothing right in her life. What they don’t know is that the pain in her life might be immense but she’s just smiling it off. So how do people not know about her problems you ask? How does not even a single person have a clue as to what in the name of God is happening in her life? Well that’s really simple, she does not throw around her problems at other people who firstly don’t care and secondly, well there is no secondly because the first explains it all. She’s mature enough to comprehend and understand that there is no one in this world who cares about her problems. You know we might think that the person who we confide in actually gives a shit about our problems but you never know when things can change. This world we live in is so judgmental, so fake, so full of shit and filled with pretence that it’s really hard to understand the difference between actors who perform on stage and actors in real life; the line of difference is so thin.

So you know how some people keep posting statuses about their depressed life and try to gain attention that is probably the most annoying thing ever. Please help me understand how people take her bullshit every single day. I mean don’t you get tired of it. I can give you three reasons as to why you shouldn’t throw your problems around at people like that: one, nobody cares. Two, nobody cares and three, NOBODY CARES! So baam! There you go. I’m so sick of people going like, “aww baby what happened do you need something, some advice or maybe a hug? Tell me everything” and then they’re like all ears to you, yeah that moment when you know it’s so fake that freaking Barbie looks real. So okay you trust her/him and you tell them everything because you know you can confide to them and guess what happens next! Someone who you doesn’t even talk to you goes like, “Hey did this happen to you?” and you know you want to punch that person’s face but you calm yourself and pretend that nothing happened because you’re stupid, because you think it makes you “THE BIGGER PERSON”.

 

When you start liking someone, a huge part of you can get disappointed pretty easily because of something horrible they do to you or even the smallest thing they do can easily affect you in either way, be it positive or negative. You let yourself be controlled by someone who you’re not even sure likes you or not. That’s the problem with us, we get so attached to someone and then it’s all gone, like it never really existed. Ever been in a situation where you were so close to someone for such a long time and then you drift away? Relationships play such a major role in our life, it’s all about them. Some good relationships, some bad but they’re all a part of you. So coming back to what I was saying, sometimes we get so attached to someone that if you don’t talk to them for a day, things around you seem to be so gloomy. It’s like they’re your only priority. 

Don’t let someone control you, you know play with your emotions etc because when they leave you have no idea how painful that is. When they leave you feel upset, depressed, like you’ve lost meaning to life, you have no one to love, don’t let that happen. Deep down always remember whatever happens, happens for a reason. Remember, if your still unhappy then the end hasn’t come yet to that chapter of your story. Life goes on, time waits for none so get up, think about creating a difference in this big fat stupid world. Try to change for the better, be a brighter and joyful person because when you’re happy everything around you is happy too!