ONE YEAR!

I can officially say, I’ve completed one year of blogging or might I just refer it to as ranting. I’ve always wanted to write this entire blog on how nice all of you are, who take out time to read my rants on issues that don’t even concern you MOST of the times and sometimes some that don’t even make sense and also thank you guys. But no, I am disappointing a whole bunch of you (I’m guessing…) because today’s blog is not about thanking you people (at least not the first part of it.) but about some things that have happened to me personally and some things that really make me think, is this how all you really are and that what you show others is just your makeup to hide your true self?

First being, how can someone not realize their being used for say money or popularity being the other reason, by people they call friends. There are so many kinds of people when it comes to being used, one being when they get so used to being used by other people that they stop caring. The other types are the ones who are so oblivious to the fact they’re being used, they don’t even notice it. Third are those types who are told by others that they’re being used, but no! They wouldn’t believe it and the last type? The ones who get used and use in return, it’s like benefit from each other (Don’t get me wrong here…) but seriously getting back to the point, it’s really sad that there are people out there who use others just for their own benefit and IF they tend to ask for something in return ever, it’s like who are you? Do I know you? It’s so sad that I for a matter of fact know SO many people that use others and no, they’re not talking good behind their back either. Put yourself in his/her shoes for once; see it from his point of view. There are some people out there too, who do things for others, even when they can’t, but they still do it. Imagine yourself in this position; you get to know the person you’ve done SO much for, has been stabbing you from the behind all along, how would that feel? 

So I definitely got a lot of dislike for my blog to, a lot of people hate me or dislike me, never will like me, or might have liked me but it changed over a course of time. Do people hate me? Yes many do a lot more than I can think of. You know there are these quotes or might I say words of inspiration like people call it, posted sometimes on facebook, or I go through them while reading an article or something which goes something like, "The only reason someone hates you is because they see the reflection of what they want to become, in you." Or "They hate you only because they're jealous of what you've become and what they haven't". But you know what? That's not it, how much ever envious you are about the fact she has a better quality than you do, you’ll always love yourself for who you are, no matter if you’ve achieved what they have or not!

No matter how much one wants to hate themselves for who they are, they can't. You cannot hate yourself. If the person tends to be better than you in some aspect, you're always trying to find faults in that person, trying to identify the wrong in her/him, but don't you get it? You're unique in your own way, different from the rest of the crowd there is this one quality or more that you stand out in.

I may definitely not be the best writer you know of, I obviously make mistakes, I'm not perfect and nobody is. However flawless she or he might be, everyone makes mistakes and no one is perfect. The point I'm trying to make is, instead of laughing at the mistakes I make, or anyone else makes, why don't you correct them? If you're laughing at them that means you know the right way of doing things or amending that certain mistake. Why make her/him the laughing stock? Why can't you just correct the person, it’s not like you don't make mistakes too?

For a matter of fact, I did have a lot of people who passed really rude comments (Like when I say rude, I mean the top of the peak kind or rude, heights!) You guys! Really stop criticizing people, passing such horrible comments and making fun of people. If you can't do it, give other people some space to do it. You know what's the funny part? You say it's a waste of time but by commenting about it, by making fun about it with other people, guess what you’re doing there? Wasting your own “precious" time. If you guys don't do it, why are you stopping others from doing what they like? If you don't like others interfering in your life, then why do you interfere in other people's lives? But apart from all of the people who did not like anything I ever posted, there were so many who did and I really appreciate it, Thank you for always correcting me. Those people who read all of my blogs and always had something to say. Everyone who always wanted me to keep writing, thanks so much, it means a lot.